Bachelorettehood Dating

Single women are not “broken”

April 3, 2018

So last night, I was browsing through other blogs by single women, and I came across a post that kind of irritated the shit out of me.  I’m paraphrasing here, but the title was something along the lines of “why you’re still single” – as written to a female audience of women in their mid-thirties and beyond.  Because what a miserable existence that must be! I should mention,…



March 25, 2018

Over the last couple of years, I’ve come to realize that I’m more of a seasonal lover.  Sometimes I want a partner, sometimes I want to be free.  I’m okay with taking on a lover, and I’m okay with letting him go.  It’s not that I view love or companionship as disposable – I don’t.  But I’m constantly-evolving, fiercely independent, and I don’t want to force a relationship…